Asking A Girl To Be Your...
Courtesy of RedTears
- Girlfriend
- Submissive
- Dominant
- Wife
So, I have experience with two of these, but I can tell you my own point of view on the other two as well! So yes, I've been asked out as a girlfriend and as a submissive but it's generally all the same idea. To be honest, looks honestly don't matter once you have won a girl over with your personality.
The most important thing to winning a girl over is to be genuine. Honestly, we can see right through you, or at least our emotions can and we never feel right. Be yourself, if we don't like you for yourself, there is another girl out there even more perfect - promise! And you really don't want to miss her. She is going to fit into your life like a jigsaw piece in place.
Secondly, and very important too, no matter how 'manly' you are or how often she bats away your compliments, I can honestly say she loves them - so long as you are not faking them or overdoing them. She is trying to be modest by batting them away, but stopping them will only make her think you don't like her any more. Compliments, pet names, cute jokes, she loves them. But try not to embarrass her too much in front of friends! Give her the occasional compliment so she can show you off, but not too much!
Third is where is begins to vary. I would say though, that the next most important is to want to talk with her. Yes, there are times you can't, tell her when those times are. If you need to go to bed, don't try to keep talking, give her a compliment, tell her goodnight and say something cute. Let her know you will talk in the morning. Some mornings, wait for her to contact you so you know she wants to talk too, other mornings, contact her. If you don't hear from her unexpectedly for a whole half a day, contact her. She might just be testing you, seeing if you want to talk with her. Be worried and let her know you are. She might call you silly for expecting the worst or even roll her eyes, but she loves that you are so worried about her. If she can't talk and she says so, express that that upsets you some but tell her it is alright and you will speak with her later. Again, tell her you love her. She loves the reassurance. Some mornings, contact her right away, other mornings, have breakfast and what not first. She will love that special feeling when you contact her just after you wake, knowing she was one of your very first thoughts and you couldn't wait to talk with her again.
The most important thing to winning a girl over is to be genuine. Honestly, we can see right through you, or at least our emotions can and we never feel right. Be yourself, if we don't like you for yourself, there is another girl out there even more perfect - promise! And you really don't want to miss her. She is going to fit into your life like a jigsaw piece in place.
Secondly, and very important too, no matter how 'manly' you are or how often she bats away your compliments, I can honestly say she loves them - so long as you are not faking them or overdoing them. She is trying to be modest by batting them away, but stopping them will only make her think you don't like her any more. Compliments, pet names, cute jokes, she loves them. But try not to embarrass her too much in front of friends! Give her the occasional compliment so she can show you off, but not too much!
Third is where is begins to vary. I would say though, that the next most important is to want to talk with her. Yes, there are times you can't, tell her when those times are. If you need to go to bed, don't try to keep talking, give her a compliment, tell her goodnight and say something cute. Let her know you will talk in the morning. Some mornings, wait for her to contact you so you know she wants to talk too, other mornings, contact her. If you don't hear from her unexpectedly for a whole half a day, contact her. She might just be testing you, seeing if you want to talk with her. Be worried and let her know you are. She might call you silly for expecting the worst or even roll her eyes, but she loves that you are so worried about her. If she can't talk and she says so, express that that upsets you some but tell her it is alright and you will speak with her later. Again, tell her you love her. She loves the reassurance. Some mornings, contact her right away, other mornings, have breakfast and what not first. She will love that special feeling when you contact her just after you wake, knowing she was one of your very first thoughts and you couldn't wait to talk with her again.
Anyway, I promised to tell you how to ask! So, nice and easy, not too much block text. Remember to cater these to your girl's likes...
Asking her to be your submissive...
This one I'm good at so watch out boys!
Asking her to be your Dominant...
Watch my advice here, I'm mostly guessing, just giving you a female's perspective. I am a submissive, my tendencies border on slave so yeah. |
Asking her to be your girlfriend...
I'm pretty good at this one too so here goes!
Asking her to be your wife...
I am not married! I simply know how I would like to be asked one day. |